the house

for the past few years, my dad has been trying to get me to buy him out of my parents house. i’ve not really wanted to… i don’t see any reason to buy something that will be mine some day anyway. i mean really. i know it sounds wrong (thinking that my dad is going to die and i’m going to get the house), but after the stroke things are looking more that way.

BUT, mom doesn’t want dad to be on the property anymore. i can’t say that i blame her. she is concerned that upon dad’s death, dad’s wife is going to try to force her to sell. i wouldn’t be surprised if that really did happen.

so, i’ve been thinking about buying my dad out of the property. hmph. not for me, not for my dad, but for my mom. mom didn’t get what she should have gotten in the divorce, and now, dad keeps “screwing” her. i don’t like it. i don’t want to see it happen anymore.

tomorrow i’m putting my name on the second… i think we are going to put my name on the property, and take my dad’s name off the second. i used to be worried about my first time home buyer status. now i don’t really care.

i don’t care about much of anything anymore.

Comments

  1. oh honey.. I’m sorry you’re having such a rough time.
    I love you.
    *nodding*
    You’re a good person, a great friend. I can go kick your stepmother in the shin if you’d like.