the rocker won tickets to the sharks vs. detroit when he went to this signing thing for his friend. so, there he was, waiting in line to get this jersey signed, and they announced, you won tickets to the sharks vs. detroit game. he has yet to tell his friend that he didn't pay for the seats. his friend thinks he did. anyway, we went to the game, and it was pompom night. yeah for me! i got to wave pompoms around everytime the sharks scored. actually, i thought i might be a red wings fan … [Read more...]

the rocker and i had our first session of couples therapy last night. very interesting stuff. we really didn't talk much about us. we talked about him for a minute, we talked about me for a minute... we talked about us for a minute. all in all, i think it is going to be a helpful process. we are both going to learn how to tell each other what we want. and, despite what i may think, the rocker has moved in. the therapist said so. gotta go with the impartial third party. it's the right … [Read more...]

so, saturday night was sabercats night. the rocker and i went out to dinner at rockbottom, went to our favorite used record store, and then waited for the game to start. saturday nights give-a-way was a 2 pin set... signifying the 10 year anniversary of the team. kinda a stupid give-a-way. last week they passed out mouse pads with the schedule on them. i liked that. anyway, the rocker and i figured out how to bring beer into the game. the rocker really liked that, although the beer … [Read more...]

so, i'm talking to my dad today... he tells me that he is fostering a new dog, candy. isn't she so cute? some mean person dropped her at the santa clara county humane society! can you imagine? she is 13 years old, but very spry. i'm thinking that candy needs to come live with daisy and i... what do you think? couldn't we all use a little bit more 'fro in our lives? besides, daisy is becoming a "daddy's girl". i drew a picture for the rocker at the melvins concert on his palm. and he … [Read more...]

last night during dinner, the rocker asked me: "did you hear about the asteroid that came within 26,500 miles of hitting the earth today?" WHAT? where the hell was i yesterday? how much news have i really been missing? so, i have investigated the story. apparently 2004 FH, was discovered on monday, and is only about 100 feet in diameter. an asteriod this size, if it actually hit the earth, would more than likely burn up in the atmosphere. it might break some windows on the ground, but … [Read more...]

after the big fight, i made a decision. the rocker and i don't know how to communicate. i think it can be a common problem. i mean, you take a guy and a girl, put them in a room, tell them something and odds are they heard two different things. i know the rocker and i are like that. and then, there is the problem with us both needing to be right. in every situation. we argued about which cream cheese he used for his bagel last week... we argued about side of the bed i was going to sleep … [Read more...]

so, it has finally happened... I HAVE TENURE! no more big worries about being let go, no more thinking about if i should be hunting for a new job, and no more raises! so, it may be the day to be green, but st. patricks day now means job security, and i like it. … [Read more...]

i've been calling missey andrea on a regular basis to determine if she has had that bump yet. she was supposed to have the bump within 10 days of last wednesday. hmph. no baby. i'm so ready to meet this bump, and i have bump envy. i'm hoping that it will be a st. patty's day bump. wouldn't that be nice? … [Read more...]

this weekend was uber busy! i can't believe how much i packed in! friday, i got home from work and i made dinner. neither the rocker or i could decide what we wanted to eat, so i decided to grill up the steaks i had, and i made nachos. granted, i only had sharp cheddar cheese and chips. no sour cream, no guacomole... but i did have salsa, so that's what i made. cheddar cheese nachos with steak. the rocker ate it up! it turned out much better than i expected! then, we went over to santa … [Read more...]

mom came home on sunday. she arrived while the rocker and i were at dinner at his brothers. when we got home, she was there. she had done the dishes we brought home from the baby shower on saturday. she cleaned up the kitchen. she took out the trash. all these things i simply didn't have time to do, she did. she even took back the outdated pineapple i got for my lunch from safeway. i had company in the evening (the rocker was given time to be at his house with his parents who were also … [Read more...]